I was lost, overworking, overthinking, with a constant to-do list & never feeling "good enough"


Hey Reader,

Happy 11/11 - one of the most powerful days for manifesting✨

Also welcome to retrograde season 🪐

AUTHENTICITY is KEY for manifesting your dream life

It is THE most magnetic frequency, stronger than LOVE. Authenticity is being yourself - the real, true, genuine you

The you that doesn't people please, that doesn't tone yourself down or hide the parts of you that you don't think others will like

Its the version of you that is unapologetic. Who owns who you are, knows their unique gifts, who feels FREE to be themselves. When you are authentic you magnetise the right people and opportunities to you like magic. When you are being authentically YOU, you KNOW you are on the right path.

Feeling this way? PRICELESS

But it hasn't always been this way for me...

In 2020 I was feeling lost, overworking, overthinking, with a constant to-do list, never feeling "good enough" and no matter what I did I never felt like I'd done enough either. I had no idea what I should do with my life, what I was here to do and I kept thinking "surely like should feel better than this???"

Until I started doing the inner work and started to really get to know myself: my strengths, my values, my unique design, my timeline and what I LOVE. Then I found numerology, human design and astrology and they all confirmed what I had learned about myself and supported me to embrace my unique gifts and design. Even your NAME is a clue to your purpose.

When I let go of limiting beliefs I had held for years, things like "you'll have to do a job you don't like because thats just life", "its not safe to start your own business" and "that life isn't possible for you" - my life changed

I stepped into my power and started living my purpose. This happened before I started my business. I started embracing who I was in my current role and asked for work that interested me and aligned with my strengths, I brought oracle cards to girls nights with my friends, I started writing empowering weekly emails for FUN. Because living your purpose isn't just a "job", its who you ARE.

Now I life a life I absolutely LOVE, I feet lit up living my purpose every single day, using my natural strengths and being my authentic self.

Now its your turn babe. Your journey will be different to mine, but you're meant to live a life you're obsessed with. You're supposed to be obsessed with yourself. To know your unique gifts and strengths and what you're here to give. To remember the reason why you came.

Thats why I created Explore your Purpose. I created it for YOU. With ALL the tools that supported me to discover and live my purpose and love myself for who I truly am. And I've made it into a self paced programme for you to do in your own time!!!

Included is 10 trainings, a journal booklet, a playlist and my FAV quizzes and chat gpt prompts, plus if you sign up by Sunday 16th November you'll receive a bonus 1:1 call with me!!!!

Words from the women from who have joined this programme ...

"Overall I just feel more like my true self and I couldn't be happier"

"I feel more free to be my authentic self, i feel I have dropped so much judgement around who I am and am finally accepting myself as a whole. Life excites me again, I feel curious about all the ways I can make life more fun and bring more adventure back into the everyday. This feels like coming alive again"

"For the first time in my life, I am learning to trust my intuition and my body. I feel more confident in just being me and knowing that is enough!"

"The course helped me to cherish who I am as a unique person, and that I do deserve to go after anything in life that I desire. I feel excited about what is next in life."

"I feel stronger and more grounded in knowing who I am and that doesn't include my job title. I feel open and excited to try new things like my inner child has been let out to play. I'm giving back to myself, allowing myself to rest, allowing myself to receive"

New episode on the pod 🎙️

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Holistic Hacks for a Happier...
Nov 4 · Aligned with Effy
34:05
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Last week’s episode with my friend Kian — Holistic Health & Life Coach is packed with SO MANY holistic hacks to improve your health, mindset and daily life!!! We also chat about his journey to "finding himself" and our experience studying at the Institute of Integrative Nutrition (if you're interested in becoming a Holistic Health & Life Coach you can get a sample class here and receive discount with my referral code ELLENFINNXIIN). This one’s full of wisdom, laughter and reminders that the perfect time doesn’t exist — you just have to start!!

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Soul Plan: Aligning with you...
Nov 11 · Aligned with Effy
46:40
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This weeks episode is with the lovely Gabrielle to dive deep into aligning with your soul purpose and understanding your Soul Plan — a powerful tool that reveals your challenges, talents and the deeper meaning behind your life path based on the vibration of your birth name 💫 Gaby reads my soul plan on this episode!

Lets celebrate!

My life has been quieter than usual but I've been enjoying the little things - reading my book (Conversations with God - I am obsessed), drinking ceremonial cacao, doing work that I love, coffee dates with friends and going to my yoga studio for dinner!

We've just finished week one of the manifesting challenge and its been TRANSFORMATIONAL - two women have started tiktoks, one woman has launched her retreat, there have been SO "aha' moments, mindset shifts and manifestations come to life!!! Plus the community of is AMAZING!!!

I've had AMAZING 1:1 sessions with clients and received two messages just today from clients sharing how grateful they are to have me in their life 🥰

What are you celebrating? What have you received this week?

This weeks oracle reading is from Rebecca Campbell's Starseed deck:

"You are being called to anchor all of your presence, your personality, your soul, and your spirit in the here and now. To commit to living this life, right now. To commit to putting two feet completely IN"

Sending you so much love,

Effy xxx

Interested in working with me this year? DO IT 💋


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I am a Holistic Health & Life Coach supporting women to get BACK into alignment with their true path & purpose and create the life of their DREAMS! Sign up to my newsletter for empowering messages, tools, oracle readings and ways to work with me!

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